OK, you're a total mess... you just got dumped and you're freaking out. What the heck are you gonna do? Well first of all, you have to calm down!
Good news!!
Getting back with your girlfriend is actually pretty easy when you follow the correct steps... especially if this is your first breakup with this particular girl. I'm not kidding about this! I've personally been dumped, then got back together with a few ex-girlfriends in my life, and I'm sure that lots of you have too. Think about it, how often do you hear about people breaking up, then getting back together? All the time!
The problem is, when it happens it's usually on accident.....so getting your girlfriend to come back can be hit-or-miss if you don't know what you're doing. The important thing to keep in mind is that 99% of all broken relationships CAN be fixed.....it's just a matter of whether or not you do the right things!
What if we could learn the exact things to do that get our ex girlfriends to come running back every time they get mad and leave? Or better yet, learn what to do so they never leave in the first place...
First order of business is to relax! This is the most important thing to do at this point. If you don't relax, you're gonna keep freaking out, have all kinds of counter-productive thoughts going on in your head, and you're going to say or do something stupid! So just do your best to tune out all those thoughts going through your mind, like "Is there someone else?", "Could I just call her and fix everything now?", "Should I go to her place and bring flowers?". Trust me, all these thoughts are counter-productive!
These 2 things may seem simple, but are absolutely critical, so don't overlook them!
1. DO NOT CONTACT HER (for now).
This is probably the same advice that you're seeing all over the internet... because it's GOOD advice! You're really a mess right now, and she's likely very pissed off. No good will come from talking to her at this point. Because of the emotional state you're in, you have a 99.9% chance of saying or doing something to make it worse. So just don't contact her in any way, shape, or form right now. Believe me, this will help your chances later on.
2. PLAN YOUR STRATEGY!
To win back your girlfriend you need a good plan, and you need to follow through with it. If you don't plan what you will do, you're just gonna "wing it", and not knowing what to do ahead of time could lead to disaster! When my girlfriend dumped me, I did all the wrong things because I was desperately just trying anything, hoping it would work. It wasn't until I started using a smart, carefully crafted plan that I finally started to win her over.
So how do you create this plan? Well there's all sorts of helpful articles on the internet (like this one), but to be honest, you will need a more thorough, comprehensive guide to help you come up with your custom strategy tailored to your unique situation. I read a few different books myself, including the most popular one out there on the subject, The Magic of Making Up (which is actually a great book with some awesome techniques!). Of all these books I read however, I felt that The Ex2 System was the overall best fit for my particular situation.....and it did, in fact, help me to get back my girlfriend!
